Whether you are currently going through a divorce or are thinking about divorcing, having some clear goals in place for the upcoming year can help to ensure that the process is as stress free as possible.
At Goodman Ray we have provided some New Year’s resolutions that can help you to navigate and focus, creating a smoother road ahead:
Put children first
Divorce is not only a big change for you but also your children. It is always important to prioritise the emotional wellbeing of any children to minimise the impact a divorce can have on them. Making steps to reduce conflict in front of them and considering their wishes and feelings, is a great first step to ensuring their welfare is protected throughout this transition.
Have a therapeutic outlet
The new year offers a great opportunity to take up a new hobby to improve your mental wellbeing. Whether this is creating a healthy routine, learning an instrument or engaging in therapy, leaving time for self-care is not only beneficial generally but it will also help you be better equipped for handling any challenging issues that may arise during the divorce.
Consider Mediation or other method of alternate dispute resolution
If you’re still struggling to come to an agreement with your ex-partner concerning finances or children, mediation may be the solution. A mediator’s role is neutral and independent, and will allow you both to have open and frank discussions. The aim is to come to an outcome by agreement without the need of the court, giving you more control.
Every mediation is different, so it will always be catered to the goals of the couple and their desired outcomes. Our mediators at Goodman Ray, are happy to have a brief call to introduce ourselves so you feel comfortable and confident. Our solicitors can also advise you on other suitable process options.
Be prepared, get legal advice
The best way to achieve a smooth and equitable outcome is to be financially transparent. Understanding your finances will assist in this, allowing for open and clear discussions in the new year. Talking to a solicitor and getting legal advice early on is key to understanding how finances are to be considered and to ensuring you achieve the best possible outcome.
If you have any questions or wish to get legal advice on any of the topics raised above, please feel free to either ring us on 020 7608 1227, or otherwise email us at mail@goodmanray.com.
